I fly with a VW Type4 with standard oil cooler and pump and I cannot get my oil temp over 80c so I know the standard stuff works.

I must add that I had problems in the beginning with high oil temps but this was caused by problems with the engine (too high compression). I've learnt over the years that when something's wrong with the engine you will see it on the oil temps.
Check for:
- Timing (28deg @ 3000rpm is best for VW)
- High Compression ratios (ratio's above 8:1 make the engine run hot)
- Sticking valves (common on just overhauled engines)
- Warped heads - causes lean mixtures (check this by doing a compression test)
- Lean mixture (carb or leaking inlet manifolds)
- Valve timing (exhaust valves not closing properly) this happens after 10 hours on overhauled engines- retorque heads and check valve gaps.
- Make sure the engine turns freely (crank end float)
- Make sure the engine is getting enough air to keep it cool and check for leaks in the baffling.
Hope this helps
Post some pic's of your installation I'm sure it with help evaluated your situation.