Where are you now?

[Uncle Spud Murphy]

Sawubona Mfwetu,

Still on the Isle of Wight, but ahsa coming bwana, ahsa coming. So I am and so he is to be sure

Avdb

[AndyG]

Spud,

I sent you lots of Zulu phrases, spik proper pleeese

Just joking mate, looking forward to meeting you

[John Boucher]

In my home-office contemplating tomorrow's court case....

"CROUCH, TOUCH..... ENGAGE, MARRIAGE...... DIVORCE"

[Wart]

Hey Bad Nav, been there about 18 months ago and it is still not over!! Another court date set for 12 September.

[John Boucher]

Mine - 2 years now....

Rule 43
Rule 35
Rule 37

Rules Rules Rules.... NO CHILDREN.... 50% 50%..... and that's it!

They are going to try to get it postponed as well.... Found out today that my sep. wife is earning in excess of R20 000 and she still wants another R 12 000 from me! What the hell must I live off?

[Gyronaut]

tomorrow's court case....

I'm in your corner bru... remember, sometimes bad things happen to good people for good reason.

As long as you do the right thing you will emerge stronger for it and be the better person; you will never look back.
moeniekakvattie!

holding for you

[Uncle Spud Murphy]

Vriendelik Groete Guy's,

Feel for you Wart and I feel for you too BadNav. My Wife and I have been together for 36years after meeting on a blind date and nobody stays together for that long under calm seas. The trick is to weather the storms that life throws at you both but to do that, both have to want to. We married six weeks after our first date and you can all think what you want, hah!! You couldn't find two people more incompatible but we are still together after many storms. Why do people part? Fcuk'ed if I know but it's usually over money. Husband works and earns a lot and she wants it. Wife earns more than the Husband, she earns a lot and he wants it. Then the justifying rubbish starts and both genders do it. "I don't love you anymore". "I need to branch out and see the world". "I need to do more with my life". "I feel that your holding me back". Absolute shite. One thing a human being is very good at. Never telling another the real reason a problem exists so you never know why and blame yourself for something you don't understand. Drives you nut's and it's meant to. It's human nature.

Solutions and options: Say nothing to antagonise another, it achieves sod all. Face the worst possible scenario and if you can do that, there is nothing your ex partner can do to hurt you more. Lose half of what you have, fine. You still have half of what you had and the time to go and make up what you lost. Bitterness, anger, resentment, nah - forget it. It will achieve nothing except to eat away at you. You now have your life back to probably go and make the same mistakes you made before, just have fun doing what you enjoy in the meantime.

Like I said. I feel for you guys I really do and I also have sympathy for your partners. It is never good when it goes bad and I have seen it happen to so many in my 61 summers. Life is a book with an unknown number of chapters. Some are good some not so good. Turn the next page and suddenly your enjoying a great chapter. Wart, BadNav. Re-reading the above makes me think "Shall I delete and say nothing"? I am tempted too I must admit, because this is really no business of mine. Arms folded, staring at screen trying to decide.

It stays and I will submit even though I may be wrong in my decision. However what I have written is received by you or others, the intentions were honourable.

Alles van die beste. Live well and Long

[John Boucher]

Received well.... a lesson for us all - maybe my ex should read this!

Don't delete it!

Thanks Spuddy!

[AndyG]

Spud,

When you finally get here and if you need some extra tin you can always hang a shingle outside your door saying "Marriage Guidence Counsellor"

Soom good advice in there mate,

Cheers

[V]

Red Bull Air Race, Budapest Hungary

Pretty amazing flying display, including a vintage B-52, a Corsair, a helo doing loops and barrel rolls, plus the Red Bull pilots as a cherry on top. Admittedly, on tv you see more, but it's quite an experience to be there and feel the vibe.

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[Wart]

I am in Dubai in transit to Jeddah.

Mashed Potato - your words of wisdom are spoken from many years experience and is noted with appreciation. Anyone who takes the time out to pass on their wisdom is respected in my books. Every situation is different though and I am still trying to understand what actually happened; maybe I will never know. One thing I do know is that I miss my daughter a lot, even though I get to see here every weekend! Sometimes we have to look for the good in what appears to be a bad situation.

Look forward to sharing a wee dram with you.

[John Boucher]

Licking my wounds....

NO end in sight yet again....

Trial date set for 3 March 2009....

What next?

One talks of the Old Man creating heaven and earth. After the creation He rested on the 7th day! When he created Eve, man has never rested since!

Liquidation, Sequestration.... Castration... in whatever order you want

[Grumpy]

Hey Johnno, Just hang in there bud !! It's not easy having so much k@k. But when its over, then we'll party BIG !! with you. (No hitmen in KBY)

[John Boucher]

Hitmen.... no - I like sleeping at night and I do believe the Maker will sort that out in His own way!

Here is a joke... Why do 150 000 men moer their wives, girlfriends or partners? Easy, it's because they don't listen!

Ok, delete the joke.

I am looking forward to the Ball in November. I think we are going to come irrelevant what transpires! kaplaks

[Trikenut]

Sorry about all that. Get p*ssed for me. (I'm under 18, but if i wasn't I would get p*ssed for you! )
Regards
Trikenut